Wednesday, May 23, 2012

A Word From The Wise

I was on my way home from babysitting my grand kids and had a good 2 hour ride to just sit and listen to the radio, sing, think, pray, think some more, pray some more-all of that thinking gets you  worrying sometimes so you need to pray after that! It was then that I was moved to stop in to see my parents and grandparents; something was urging me to visit them.

It was a beautiful late afternoon spring day, with a nice breeze blowing through the trees with the sun  peaking between the branches when I walked over to my parents headstones. I stopped first and said hello to my Grandpa and Grandma and tears immediately welled up in my eyes as I tried to clean off some moss on their engraved names. I talked out loud to them as if they were sitting there; it just seemed like the right thing to do. I told them how much I missed them, and how shocked they would be to know all the things going on in the world now! I re-read the dates of birth; they were only one year apart, and their dates of death; 18 years apart.
Right behind their headstone are my parents, with a grey concrete bench near by to sit on. I suddenly felt very weary as I plopped down. It was as though I had a need to unburden all those thoughts I was having. It was like being a child again hoping that they could make all my concerns better.  I actually asked them if they had any "pull" up there to try get some of my prayers answered! Of course I had to smile when I said that, but you know God has a great sense of humor too or he wouldn't love me like I know he does:)
After a while I went behind their headstones to my Great Grandparents and thanked them for their part in my life here on earth. I wondered out loud how they managed to make it through years of trials and stress; knowing well that it was a strong faith in God that carried them through.

The last one I visited was my brother, and it just was so hard to actually grip that he really wasn't here on earth anymore; somehow it still doesn't seem real. So with that, I told them all goodbye and promised I would stop again when I could. My drive home was quiet and once again I was left to my thoughts and prayers.
It was during that time that the word "wisdom" popped into my head and I knew immediately where that thought came from and what it meant. The older we get the wiser we become; we have experienced so many things, either ourselves or by knowing others. The worry and stress we feel for our children comes from knowing what will happen when they make certain decisions in their lives. They often think it is a control issue on our part, but it isn't--it is the" knowing" that causes worry and hurts so much.
Having the need to stop at the cemetery was no coincident; I was being led to those who had lived before me and had gained so much experience and knowledge during their lifetime. They may no longer be able to verbally tell me the things I have yet to learn, but if I look back at my memories and stories of their lives, I find a wealth of information and guidance through their examples (good and bad) of how to be and how to live a good life.
Hopefully we can learn these lessons so we can be good examples to the generations yet to come.

Thursday, May 3, 2012

Friends We Love To Hate???

I woke up yesterday morning to the radio announcer reading off  "The Top 5 Facebook Friends We Love To Hate!"  (Note: I am using their lines, as I am not on Facebook.)
#1--The Bragger- the person who has posts bragging pictures and comments; " My husband is the best ever, my kids are so good..."
#2--The Debbie Downer- the person who prints "Woe is me... I am so depressed-can't I ever get a break..."
#3--The Mysterious- the person who gives clues like, "What a day-I need a break, Ugggh..." Without explaining what is behind the comment!
#4--Mr. Money Bags- the person who lets you know that they buy this and that and everything to one-up you; so they think:)
#5--The Compliment Fisher-The person who posts things waiting to get a compliments like; "You can do it, lucky you, good for you, you deserve it..."
(One I have heard complaints from is, The Minute By Minute-"Going to the bathroom, will be right back, the phone is ringing, my stomach hurts, I need an aspirin..."

After all of these were read, the announcers went on to agree and add their own complaints, when finally one of them said, " You know...after reading these, what CAN you write about without being hated?" (Hmmm, exactly what I was thinking as I listened to this.)
Which in turn makes me wonder, do we really need to have friends that we love to hate?

Thursday, February 9, 2012

Love is in the Air!

This morning the radio trivia questions was, " What is it that 84% of men believe and 41% of women surveyed, believe?"
Hmmm...The man answering the question started out by saying, "Love...Saying I love you..." The DJ told him he was getting close, but to be more specific. The man blurted out, "Love at first sight...?" CORRECT!!!
A discussion followed on how surprised they were by that percentage, and I must say that I agreed with that! Wouldn't you think women would be more prone to having that romantic notion? Well, evidently not if you are to believe their survey.
Personally I believe in love at first sight--been there, done that! I think it's kinda nice thinking that it can hit men just as hard, if not harder than it does for us women. It pretty much sums up the true meaning of love; it can hit anyone, anytime and anywhere:) Isn't that exciting?
Have a great Valentine's Day!

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Today I Said a Little Prayer...

Today I said a little prayer for WJ and his children who lost their lovely wife and wonderful mommy. I pray they will have strength and courage to get through life without the person they love and depended on most on this earth. I pray that they will have the faith and knowledge that one day they will be reunited. Natalia is once again in the arms of her loving grandparents who helped raise her and is at peace.
Today I said a little prayer for Stacey who will be undergoing treatment for her thyroid cancer. May the treatment work quickly and thoroughly and may she be able to keep her strong and positive attitude even during the times that seem the hardest.
Today I said a little prayer for Char who cried when I told her about the death of Natalia, as she had just lost her husband recently and the news brought back such sadness. I pray that she will find support in all of us who love her, and comfort in the prayers that are offered her way.
Today I said a little prayer for little Elsie as she started her first day at a new daycare. May her smile brighten the lives of her provider and may they fall in love with her and care for her the way we do:)
Today I said a little prayer for Kyrstin as she comes to the last month of her pregnancy. May her labor and delivery go well and may this baby be born healthy so that someday he/she can rejoice in knowing the Lord; the creator of such miracles.
Today I said a little prayer for all my children. Keep them safe as they travel and help them to do their jobs in such a way that it makes a difference in the lives of others and in doing so brings glory to you, our Lord.
Today I said a little prayer for Connor, Tate, Caitlyn and Billy, as they head back to school. Please keep them safe at school and play and may they find pleasure in learning and opportunities to help and to be kind to others.
Today I said a little prayer for Easton, Alec and Addie. Hold them tight in your loving arms and keep them safe at play. Lord, help those around them to take time to find pleasure in all their sweetness and moments of discovery and learning:)
Today I said a little prayer for Gary. I thank you every day for bringing him into my life. Only you Lord, could have made that happen, and only you knew that we were meant to be:)
Today I said a little prayer for Layne and Jenna who rejoice in the news of a new baby! What a wonderful gift it is to be a part of creating a new life.
Today I said a little prayer for all those who are having struggles in their lives. I pray that they will turn to you so that you can guide them with the light that leads them to happiness and acceptance.
Yes, today I said a little prayer...not unlike yesterday or any day before that or any day to come.